Adventures In Ancestry: Growing Up Loud


When I was very young, I never gave my surname, Loud, a second thought. That’s probably because I had never met or heard of any other Louds, other than the Louds in my small immediate family and in my small extended family. It was a small Loud world, after all.

That all changed when I entered kindergarten and Loud became fuel for playground taunts, things like “Loudy” or my all-time favorite, “Loudmouth Lemon-Lime!” Kids can be so… creative.

A few years into elementary school, Loud talk became the talk of the nation and, in my case, the classroom. Although I didn’t know a thing about it at the time, a new show, “An American Family,” had premiered on PBS. In the series, a California family agreed to have cameras record their lives, a chaotic and complex documentary of relationships, crises, and drama. More importantly, they were also named Loud!

Portrait of “An American Family,” the California Louds. Photo courtesy of Wikipedia.

“An American Family” was groundbreaking. It’s considered to be the first unscripted reality show… and it was also the first time I had “met” Louds beyond my familial tribe. Naturally, I had questions… Is this why my friends were asking me if I had been on television the night before? (That’s a big yes, because the Louds of California also had a son, older than me, named Kevin.) How many other Louds were out there? Since it’s an uncommon name, could we all be related?

The answer to those burning questions came along a few years later. That’s when C. Everett Loud, yet another Loud I had never heard of, contacted my father. He explained that he was compiling a genealogy of the Loud family and asked my father for basic information about his own family, as well as his parents, grandparents, and great-grandparents. All of this, said C. Everett Loud, would be added to his book, 300 Years of Louds in America, and his hope was for Louds to purchase it.

C. Everett Loud. Photo courtesy of 300 Years of Louds in America.

This was in the late ‘70s and, with some quick math, I realized that my ancestors had been here since before there was a United States. While my family, worried that it was a scam, didn’t purchase a copy of 300 Years, I reached out to C. Everett Loud. I was fascinated with what he had researched and learned. He kindly responded to my questions and sent me information on my immediate branch – and yes, he said, the California Louds and the New York Louds were different branches and leaves on a tree whose canopy stretched from coast to coast.

The first Louds, brothers Francis and Elias, left Port Glasgow, Scotland, and arrived in the New World in 1675. Elias remained in Canada, while Francis traveled south to what is now Maine. There, he married, had two daughters, and eventually moved to Massachusetts, where three sons were born. One of them was also named Francis.

This second Francis married Onner Prince, the great-great-granddaughter of William Brewster, who had arrived on the Mayflower and was a senior elder in the Plymouth colony. Francis and Onner Loud had 13 children, and this is where C. Everett Loud’s story – and my story – begins.

As a very young adolescent, the pages Mr. Loud had mailed me were mind-blowing. I went from being Loudmouth Lemon-Lime to being a small part of our nation’s story, a descendant of Pilgrims and colonists and, based on a timeline, revolutionaries. The Louds, a family with a strange surname, were as much a part of America as the Washingtons and Franklins, Hamiltons and Jeffersons. I was amazed.

I still am.

All of it reminded me of a book series I read for fun while in high school — the Bicentennial Series, by John Jakes. Recently, I found a copy of the first book, The Bastard, in a used bookstore and I’ve begun re-reading it. Mr. Jakes could certainly tell a tale.

A few years before COVID, I went on Amazon and found a copy of 300 Years of Louds in America for sale. Apparently, C. Everett Loud’s daughter had lots of copies of her father’s work. Every so often, she would sell one or two on Amazon. I just happened to be looking at the right time.

When the book arrived, my first task, naturally, was to trace my own lineage.

After finding my name — on page 453 — along with the information my father had provided C. Everett Loud all those years ago, I traveled through the book in reverse, to my grandfather, to my great-grandfather, to Louds I had never heard of – all the way back to William Brewster Loud, the 9th of Francis and Onner Loud’s 13 children.

I then took a moment to consider the scope of 300 Years. At 900+ pages and a chapter dedicated to each of the 13 children, it’s an enormous book. It’s also a testament to the dedication and research skills of C. Everett Loud, who conducted his work long before there were personal computers and the Internet. Mr. Loud did his research the old-fashioned way – writing letters, making phone calls, sitting in libraries, combing through historical societies, and crisscrossing the country to meet with Loud descendants to review family bibles, documents, and photographs.

A meme that pretty much describes me.

During the COVID years, isolated at home, I wondered about the other stories hiding in the pages – and I began reading it and transcribing the data into an Ancestry family tree. Armed with a laptop and WiFi, I often found myself willingly jumping down rabbit holes in an attempt to update the genealogy – adding births and deaths and any Loud history — as best I could. In addition to resources found on Ancestry, I also relied on other sites, such as Google, Legacy, Find-A-Grave, Family Search, Fulton History, and Facebook.

I think C. Everett Loud would have been impressed with what technology could accomplish from the comfort of home.

I’ve had to take time away from the project, especially as life resumed post-COVID and other responsibilities moved to the top of each day’s to-do list. Whenever I returned to it, though, I have met so many interesting Louds and stories that illustrate our nation’s colorful and sometimes painful history – stories that I’d like to share here in future “Adventures in Ancestry” posts.

Whenever I pull the giant book from its place and open up my Ancestry page on my laptop, Joe will inevitably ask, “Why are you doing this? What’s the end result?”

I’m really not sure, because there’s no single answer. If I ever finish this family tree project, I’d like to be able to share it with other Louds – but I’m not sure how to do that. I’m also hoping to create my own aha moments, like the ones that happen on my favorite PBS show, “Finding Your Roots.”

More importantly, as our nation endures a chaotic present and unchartered future, I find myself reflecting back on the past, on the Loud lives that came before me, on the things they accomplished, on the history of their times, and on how all of that has reached me — one Loud among so many.

Mother and baby Limpkin, spotted on a recent late afternoon walk through a local park.

Of course, there’s more to me than my Loud side. There’s also my maternal heritage, one that begins in two Sicilian villages. Putting together that genealogy has been a bigger puzzle, especially because I don’t have a 900+ page book to give me a hand.

Naturally, there’s a story. It’s one that bubbles in my DNA – rather strongly – when I’m working in the garden, smelling fresh soil, or planting a seed – and I have a photo to prove it. Stay tuned.

11 thoughts on “Adventures In Ancestry: Growing Up Loud

  1. Oh, genealogy! Such a delightful black hole! I got started because I only knew of one great grandfather and wondered about my forebears every time I looked in the mirror to brush my teeth! Luckily, my partner and kids are equally interested. We sporadically dive into records online, trying to add to that complicated family tree. It gets even more complicated with second and third marriages!

    We love the television series Who Do You Think You Are? – both the British and American versions. Fascinating stuff. I remember the PBS series on the Louds, and how the so-called unobtrusive camera came to affect how the family behaved, simultaneously somehow both naked and performative. Cameras often change what people will say and do. How lucky you are to have had C. Everett lay so much of the groundwork for your own genealogy searches! Fascinating stuff! Thanks for sharing it with us.

    • Hi Linda. I have those same thoughts when I look in the mirror! I have several trees going on my Ancestry page, including one for my husband — that one is a story that rocked our world. I also enjoy Who Do You Think You Are — and I love placing the ancestor in a moment in history — whether it’s war, peacetime, a drought, an epidemic, or even a Revolution. I’ve learned so much. I’ve also developed my own interest in the ancestors “who never married.” That has a whole different meaning when looking at them through a modern-day lens. I also love that your kids are interested… it’s important for them to know and understand their personal histories… Happy Genealogy Researching!

  2. Hi Kevin, wow! That’s a great family history review. It’s so important to know our lineage. I discovered my father’s line just ten years ago and we correspond every week from the other side of the world thanks to technology. You never know what you can find digging into family lines. 😄

  3. Wow. Fascinating. Of course all families date back to the beginning of civilization, but it’s amazing that your family has roots in pre-colonial America. Wow. But I repeat myself. Keep the Ancestral Adventure chronicles coming.

    And that photo of young Kevin Loud is beautiful — such an innocent smile — you were such a cutie. Was this a first day of school photo — it seems like your right hand clutches a school bag handle? And you in a tie — how adorable!!!

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